Fatherhood First
Fatherhood First is an eight-week parenting course for dads. Topics include child development, masculinity and parenting, and the important role of men in families. If you are interested in learning more, please contact Daryl Trowbridge at (360) 452-2954.
Do you want to talk with your child about sex, but just don't know where to start?
As parents and caregivers, YOU are the primary sexuality educator of your children. Here are 10 simple tips from the experts to help YOU have ongoing discussion with your children.
- Recognize "teachable moments." Make use of daily opportunities that occur when you are with your children that make it easy to share your messages and values.
- Remind yourself that it is okay to feel uncomfortable. It is often hard to talk about sexual matters. Relax and tell your children you are talking with them because you love them and want to help them.
- Don't wait until they ask a question. Many children never ask questions.
- Be "askable." Reward a question with, "I'm glad you came to me." It will teach your children to come to you when they have other questions and that you are open to talking with them about sexuality issues.
- Consider the "question behind the question." The unspoken question "Am I normal?" is often hiding behind many questions about sexual development, sexual thoughts and sexual feelings.
- Listen. Ask them why they want to know and what they already know. That may help you prepare for the answer.
- Remember that facts are not enough. Share your feelings, values and beliefs. Then, tell your children why you feel the way you do.
- Talk about the joys of sexuality. Tell your children that loving relationships are the best part of life and that intimacy is a wonderful part of adult life.
- Keep in mind that you are talking with your children because you care about their happiness and well-being. You are also sharing your values, helping to build a foundation for them to become sexually healthy adults. This is one of the real joys of parenthood.
- Find about the sexuality education program in your local schools, faith communities, and youth groups. Ask your children, teachers, principals, school board members, faith leaders, and the staff at Family Planning of Clallam County (452-2954) about resources and the programs that are being taught in your community.
Adapted from the Sexuality Information and Education Council of the US and the Minnesota Department of Health MN ENABL Program.
Baby Think It Over ®
The RealCare® Baby infant simulator is a lifelike, life-size doll with realistic computerized responses, which allows teens to experience some of the demands of infant care. The infant simulators help explore the emotional, financial, and social consequences of being a teen parent. When the baby cries, the teenager must determine if the baby is hungry, needs burping, rocking, or a diaper change. The baby's computer records the number of times the baby was cared for, any rough handling, lack of head support, or wrong positioning. After spending a few days and nights with the Baby Think It Over infant simulator, many teens realize they are not ready to take on the pressures and responsibilities of being a parent.